Hello House, please help I need advice.
I have a girlfriend who’s been with me for 2 years, she’s a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we’ve been through it all, she’s every man’s dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.
Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she’s totally naked running around the house.
I’m only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she’s chocolate and average ass, I don’t want a sexually boring marriage.
She’s good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don’t feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we’ve been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don’t even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.
Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?
I don’t want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.
She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.
She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.
Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she’s not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I’m just confused.
I don’t even know if it’s love, because she has no one, I’m her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.
Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don’t tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.
I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn’t have anything or anyone, I’m the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.
I’m just confused.
(AGManuel)
Having ex is a big problem for you.Allow her to go, don’t marry out of pity.You will later regret it.
Na Ashawo dey your eyes.
The light skin girl outside, eventually when you marry her, same thing will still happen. After awhile u feel less attractive to sex. You start looking for another light skin