Social media personality, Kemi Olunloyo, likes to express herself unapologetically.
In an interview with Sunday Scoop, Olunloyo talked about her birthday wish and sex life. She said, “My birthday wish wasn’t fulfilled. I told Naira Marley I wanted to ‘get down’ with Jude Chukwuka, the actor he gave N1m. I was actually flirting with Chukwuka. What happens between me and Chukwuka is amazing. Even his wife and children are laughing at us. We are very good friends though I haven’t met either him or Naira Marley. The latter is like a son to me. He gave me a nice cash gift for my fifty-fifth birthday and also celebrated me when I turned 56 recently. I really can’t fall in love with a man. I don’t have whatever makes people fall in love. At 56, I don’t need marriage again.
“I was celibate for 10 years. It is very common for Nigerian men to think that all a woman wants is good sex but we don’t need that to get what we want out of life. Men only say such things when their egos have been deflated. I really don’t like sex because I was circumcised (female genital mutilation). That made me distant from my mother. I dated someone in 2017 and the relationship ended that same year. However, I use sex toys and I like them. I promote their use and I want other women to do the same.”
Olunloyo also insisted that she had forgiven pop star, Davido. “I have forgiven Davido for what he said to me though he did not apologise. I have never seen him. I don’t worry about him anymore. His fiancée, Chioma, didn’t offend me but her social handle was once used to call me an ‘old cargo’. I have never attacked her,’’ she said.
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Madam Olunloyo stated that she couldn’t enjoy sex with men because she had lost the urge due genital mutilation. How come now she enjoys sex with sex toys when she had lost the urge? Isn’t this contradictory? May be it is because it involves a machine that doesn’t get tired unlike man.
Anyway, there’s a difference between female circumcision and female genital mutilation. Female circumcision is the moderate removal of a female’s foreskin while genital mutilation is one done severely which causes a damage.
The two extreme ends to female circumcision are non-circumcision and female genital mutilation. These two extreme ends are not good for a female as genital mutilation makes her loses the urge while non-circumcision makes her hyperactive to sex which may lead her to becoming very promiscuous. Everything in life needs moderation; take it or leave it, female circumcision balances a female’s sexual life unlike genital mutilation and non-circumcision.
She don’t get herself when she don’t like sex why using sex toys ….?