HELP! “My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends”

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Before I got married to my husband we had a kind of perfect relationship. I just thought he was the perfect guy. He always checked on me. I did feel like he was marrying me for ulterior motives and everyone else just thought so too. My brothers warned me that he is not going to treat me right but I just feel drawn to him. I thought he just really cared about me. He seemed different.

I introduced him to my dad and my dad asked if I was sure and yes at that moment I was. Then shortly before the wedding his true colors started to come out. I never checked his phone but then a friend caught her boyfriend cheating so I decided to just check it. Guys I understand people say that if you go looking you will find something but I actually don’t really believe that why is there always something that is the main point. I checked his phone and found one boob pic and pics of his old exes. I was SO shocked. Honestly, I never thought I would find anything. He told me that he recently got his phone updated and the pic was a pic of a celebrity. But I was smarter than that I saw that it was actually an “Auntie” that sent the pic so basically one of his contacts. I was so shocked, didn’t know what to do. I told my brother he told me to just pray and I did and I felt like he was still the one he apologized and assured me that he was going to change. 

Fast forward to a few months later I see a girl’s pic in his phone his good friend’s girlfriend and he was commenting on her looks very gross-like. I lost it and we fought but he assured me it was just guy talk. 

Then again I recently found him talking to his good friend about another girl’s boobs and he never tells me he loves me any longer. Never really truly cares. He even brought up divorce if I wanted to do it. So I am just kind of stuck. I do want to get a divorce honestly if my parents and his would not get involved. But we have a child together. I am not sure what to do right now. Why would he do this to me? Why get married if you don’t love the person. I understand that people say guys will be guys and locker room talk but if you don’t love that person deeply and truly then why marry them and make a vow before God.

Now I don’t know what to do. He is always so rude in the way he talks. I can’t remember the last time he took me out and even if he did I am sure it would be a dry conversation. I think he really is just worried about what people say and not really losing me any longer. He has this thing where he wants to always look like a nice guy. So my question is if you were in this position how would you leave? Oh he also looks at my friends and claims he never was when it is pretty obvious. He drank a little and then started winking at my friend.