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A Nigerian lady simply known as Mary, has revealed that a man sponsored her through the university with the intention of taking her as his wife, but she is not interested in marrying him.
She conveyed the message to her lover, Darlington, in a video making the rounds online, saying that the fact he trained her through school is not a good enough reason for her to be with him forever.
Mary noted that she was grateful for his gesture towards her but it won’t influence her decision in his favour.
The young woman blames Darlington’s family for making their relationship difficult hence why she made the tough decision to not settle down with him.
According to Mary, the boyfriend once introduced her as his fiancee to his mother but she plainly told him in her presence that he cannot marry her.
She said the man’s mother barred him from marrying her because they were not comfortable with the idea that she does not have parents.
She also said Darlington’s sister accused her of squandering his money and the sum of all these are the issues she has with his family.
Mary stressed that she went through hell so he cannot try to guilt trip her by saying she refused to marry him despite sponsoring her education.
The video triggered massive reactions as social media users took to comment section. Some reactions are shown below:
idong.e said, “My question here is….Nne, what did Darlinton do to u…? I guess u shld be worried abt what ur guy did to u & not what his mum & sisters said to u… they said all that & he still went on to pay ur fees, regardless.. Why didn’t u stop him Frm paying ur fees knowing for sure u will come back with this excuse?…To me, Darlintons parents were actually very right abt u, they saw what Darlinton cldnt see… Refund Darlintons money, Nne! God bless u as u comply..”
itsvibesangel_ said, “Even as a lady? I will never advice a man to train any girl in school!! Unless you are married to her? Don’t try it Nna!”
blessingnkere said, “Now that you’ve graduated, you can start paying him back gradually. I think that’s the best step. He trained you because he thought you loved him and would marry him after school. You played it cool cuz you wanted to go to school too so please Nne, start paying Darlington back so God won’t punish you.”
alexpaulnedu said, “But they didn’t have the agreement that training in school will lead to marriage na … So Darlington next time, get a lawyer and have a written agreement. And please node train who no like you. Thanks…. Also, please did your mom say you can’t marry who has no parents because I know things like that is a thing for some parents.”
adejokebpsc_ said, “Some ladies needs to know that whatever challenges they get from husbands family is because of jealousy… do u expect his family to give him crown for paying school fees??? Married men that sponsor wife self deh collect insult from his family.. all this ur excuse is not enough to leave me Darlington oo.. cause nah because of how he is treating u right deh vex his people. They no want make u finish money weh never reach them. Nd Darlington is busy building a future with u, now u feel like u can’t marry him. Why not say this when he never pay finish .. nonsense”.
Watch the video below:
You must be an ingrate,and a reason why some men stop funding woman.
You shall regret your action.